Big Moves in May!

No, I mean literally. I moved!

Last week, I packed up all my stuff, took a bunch of finals, cried and hugged my roommate a lot, and hopped in a U-Haul truck with all my earthly possessions (re: my fiance hopped in the scary big truck and I followed in my car). Where did we go, might you ask?

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I’m sure everyone is shocked and surprised. All jokes aside, Bobby and I got an apartment! It’s very small, but cute, and we get to live there and eat ice cream for dinner if we want, because we’re adults (but we usually don’t do that).

It’s been a super big adjustment already, even though it’s only been a week. Of course, that might have to do with the fact that our apartment has a gas leak and we don’t have a stove but it’s good, it’s good, we’re fine. (The gas is shut off, so we aren’t going to die or anything, we just literally can’t cook anything. Because they gave us two hot plates to use, and then our kitchen outlets stopped working, too. So.) But hey, that’s New York I guess???

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Anyway, so we’re adjusting. I only took a subway the wrong way once. I am still looking for a job though, so if anyone needs any help in media or PR or graphic design or literally anything along those lines,  HIT YA GIRL UP!

I think I’m going to write up some kind of apartment hunting guide or something along those lines, because, contrary to what it seems, Bobby and I did actually do an EXCELLENT job of apartment hunting (I swear, everything else about our apartment except our inherent bad luck is excellent.)

Anyway, I’m  off to run to class now (because yes, I’m still commuting to finish my degree. Three hours on a subway/train/bus is NOTHIN’.) Just wanted to post a little because it’s been so long. I’m trying to settle into a good posting routine, it’s just been nuts with the move and classes and prepping for graduation this summer.

Talk to ya soon!

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One Month Down: Grad School Reflections

Hey everyone!

For today’s post, I thought I’d take a look back at the last month that I’ve spent in grad school. I finished undergrad in May 2017, and I started a M.A. program this fall in public relations.

The program I’m in is only a year long, so it’s broken into modules instead of semesters, which makes it pretty intense. I’m not sure what exactly I was expecting, but it’s a combination of things. The program is really intense, and can be difficult. Some things I am really struggling with (like my Photoshop class). Other things I am genuinely enjoying to the point of them not feeling like assignments (like event planning and PR plans).

Time Management:
One thing I didn’t miss was how much time school takes up! There’s two nights of the week I spend in class, which doesn’t sound like much, but when you’re trying to cram everything into a day, the time slips by. I’ve definitely had to try to relearn time management. I was great at it in my undergrad, but nowadays I find myself struggling more.

One of the major things I’ve had to learn is that Rome wasn’t built in a day. I can’t do all of my homework, and complete assignments for work, and prep all my blog posts, and clean my house, and then go bartend or make it to class. I have to do a little bit each day, or dedicate one day to each pursuit. I’m still struggling with this idea, but I have to say I’m learning to accept it more.

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I’m OBSESSED with my Happy Planner! It helps keep me in line with everything I have going on. 

 

SELF CARE IS MANDATORY! 
I’m also learning how valuable time is. Why waste it watching hours of netflix when I could be prepping blog posts or working on a project? If I’m using my time for something else, it’s because I have made a conscious decision that it’s necessary self care. Watching one episode of a great show with a candle, or reading a magazine to relax. The couple hours I get in the morning to do devotionals and to go to the gym are KATE TIME and those are not negotiable things. Sometimes I have to verbally tell myself that I am only human, and I am allowed to spend time taking care of my body, mind, and soul.

Everything comes to an end.
Just as the good things unfortunately end, so does the stress. By August 2019, I will have a master’s degree. It’s less than a year,  and like I tell myself, you can do ANYTHING for a year. It’s just a matter of balance and willpower, and some days are harder than others, but I find that as long as I keep my eye on the light at the end of the tunnel, things feel a little lighter.

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These are my reflections so far. I’m about halfway through module 1, so we’ll see how I’m feeling come Thanksgiving/Christmas when I’m gearing toward the end of Module 2 (There’s 6 of them.)

Are you in grad school? Do you have any tips?! PLEASE let me know! Thanks!